Absolutely.
I'm one of those people who has like a bajillion walls built up and, while I'm friendly it's always still with keeping people at a distance. I'm a pretty private person in that way. I don't really send tells to people, I'm not good at speaking to people one on one. Most of my interaction - which many people in my FC will tell you - with 95% of the people will be in a public space where everyone else can see it. If I send you a tell, it's mostly for business (I help run the fc after all) most of my conversations are lore/characters questions in private while most of my public interactions are me shipping all the things
There are very few, and I can count them on one hand, who have penetrated the wall. And while I'm really good at shrugging off most bad things that happened with an "LOL oh well" attitude, those who get behind the wall can DEVASTATE ME. Thoroughly and utterly. They have done it before, they've done it in this game, and it will probably happen again. That's how it goes when you deal with people.
I'm of a mind that if anything is worth saving, it's worth trying to save and great things don't come easy. I will try to fix something I deem worth it until I am 120% sure there is absolutely no way to fix it. I will do EVERYTHING I have to.
Then, if it's clear its not going to be fixed, I'll quietly let it go. I'll quietly let them go. You'll never really hear me talk badly about the people who hurt me so badly. You'll barely ever hear me talk about them at all. If they want to walk away, I let them, and make it easier for them to do so.
But not until after I kicked and screamed to try to fix it
I'm one of those people who has like a bajillion walls built up and, while I'm friendly it's always still with keeping people at a distance. I'm a pretty private person in that way. I don't really send tells to people, I'm not good at speaking to people one on one. Most of my interaction - which many people in my FC will tell you - with 95% of the people will be in a public space where everyone else can see it. If I send you a tell, it's mostly for business (I help run the fc after all) most of my conversations are lore/characters questions in private while most of my public interactions are me shipping all the things
There are very few, and I can count them on one hand, who have penetrated the wall. And while I'm really good at shrugging off most bad things that happened with an "LOL oh well" attitude, those who get behind the wall can DEVASTATE ME. Thoroughly and utterly. They have done it before, they've done it in this game, and it will probably happen again. That's how it goes when you deal with people.
I'm of a mind that if anything is worth saving, it's worth trying to save and great things don't come easy. I will try to fix something I deem worth it until I am 120% sure there is absolutely no way to fix it. I will do EVERYTHING I have to.
Then, if it's clear its not going to be fixed, I'll quietly let it go. I'll quietly let them go. You'll never really hear me talk badly about the people who hurt me so badly. You'll barely ever hear me talk about them at all. If they want to walk away, I let them, and make it easier for them to do so.
But not until after I kicked and screamed to try to fix it
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