Welcome to the fun! I'm somewhat new to Mateus myself. So far, I have been met with a welcoming RP community.  Unfortunately, it is like pulling teeth trying to get the Mateus crowd to utilize this site. (glory be the day when they do)  If you have Discord, here's some links for ya:
   Mateus RP Hub:  https://discord.gg/Bq2wvGG
   Mateus RP Community:  https://discord.gg/XsBTbZv
1) I try to be IC as often as possible, and make an effort to visit public events if my RL schedule allows.  My character tries to pick out the Wall Flowers at public events and start up a conversation with them.
2) Go with what works for you and your character.  I certainly wish I could be more descriptive about my characters actions, but I usually end up with one liners.  As your comfort level grows and your familiarity to your character improves, you'll notice changes in your text.
3)Â Feel free to add Dagny Dalr.. New RP contacts are always welcome.
   Mateus RP Hub:  https://discord.gg/Bq2wvGG
   Mateus RP Community:  https://discord.gg/XsBTbZv
1) I try to be IC as often as possible, and make an effort to visit public events if my RL schedule allows.  My character tries to pick out the Wall Flowers at public events and start up a conversation with them.
2) Go with what works for you and your character.  I certainly wish I could be more descriptive about my characters actions, but I usually end up with one liners.  As your comfort level grows and your familiarity to your character improves, you'll notice changes in your text.
3)Â Feel free to add Dagny Dalr.. New RP contacts are always welcome.
Dagny Dalr (Mateus) | Lirianne Wnddancer (Balmung)