I think for the "Friend trap" since there is no set servers yet, no one has made u their mind. Maybe people can talk to their friends and ask them about joining athe unofficial RP server. If they don't RP it's completely fine. I'm talking to a bunch of people from the Quetz server about moving to one server and will ask about the designates "RPC" server. Unless their really stubborn, I doubt they'll have a problem with it.
The best way to avoid any kind of split is to just get the word out there that this place exists.
The best way to avoid any kind of split is to just get the word out there that this place exists.